Yes other people can physically hurt me but nobody can hurt me mentally if my mind no longer operates. Finally, I am broken and I’m not looking for a solution. I don’t feel better but I’m no longer burdened with a lie.
People say they want honesty but, what they really want is a reinforcement of their truth which supports their reality. Remove the illusion and see only the facts and then make a decision if its what you and the other party (ies) want.