Category Archives: abandonment

Time to appreciate what we no longer have is what we want when people are gone, we’re away from home, an event is over or we’re facing our own mortality.

I used to waste a lot of time thinking about useless nonsense, feeling persecuted, resenting and loathing the very things I wish I could have back. Appreciate everything you do with love, even your mistakes and the mistakes of others, living each moment as if it’s your last because in time, it will be.

Time is the illusion that makes you think you’re separated from everyone but in actual fact time is meaningless when hooked up to universal love 😊

I live in the heart of Melbourne and I’m in the poorest part of Auckland and  it doesn’t matter … cos who we is the same irrespective of where we’re from

My capacity to visualise and focus on what I want, coupled with a willingness to work hard is how I’ve achieve everything I’ve ever done ….

Both good and bad! Recognising how I once allowed the bad to happen enables me to see the toxic mental constructs that caused my demise. It’s why I can see the insanity in what people do. On the flip side, I use this knowledge to know that if I can practise my way to failure,Continue reading “My capacity to visualise and focus on what I want, coupled with a willingness to work hard is how I’ve achieve everything I’ve ever done ….”

COVID19 has enabled me to connect to people on an unprecedented scale … some people lost everything and some people gained something. 

I gained new friends and the capacity to communicate with people of all ages,  nationalities, creeds and religions …. 7.8 billion stories to tell, minus 2.

Weddings, accidents, emergencies, disasters and funerals should not be the only reason to connect! Do it just because 🥰

It took my brother Atene’s accident to bring us together and for me to communicate with my family …… I’ve spent the past 2 weeks doing way I should’ve always done – taken time for people I love 😍

Age is a poor indication of maturity ….

From the age of 7, I was left at home and learnt to survive …. for many years I felt that I’d been abandoned.  Last week i realised,  my parents were teaching me how to look after myself because they had confidence in me that I’d be OK. I realise now that I didn’t survive,Continue reading “Age is a poor indication of maturity ….”