In Melbourne where I am most safe and feel most comfortable, it’s easy to be at peace.

Being at peace, accepting and non-judgemental is really difficult so now I need to learn to be in a state of surrender …. accepting untenable things as if I chose them and allowing all the negative emotions to dissipate. Thus enabling wisdom to prevail and to remind me the problem exists only in my mind,Continue reading “In Melbourne where I am most safe and feel most comfortable, it’s easy to be at peace.”

In Melbourne where I am most safe and feel most comfortable, it’s easy to be at peace.

Being at peace, accepting and non-judgemental is really difficult so now I need to learn to be in a state of surrender …. accepting untenable things as if I chose them and allowing all the negative emotions to dissipate. Thus enabling wisdom to prevail and to remind me the problem exists only in my mind,Continue reading “In Melbourne where I am most safe and feel most comfortable, it’s easy to be at peace.”

Practise what you most need to learn

Solution always presents itself …. however, that doesn’t mean that you’re going to like it.

Why didn’t I sit to remove my boots?

I’m not always in an ideal situation and I need to do what I need to do to get things done!

Change management is simply the art of reinforcing desired behaviour until the behaviour is permanent….

Any vision, dream belief is achievable once a strategy is in place. Part of which requires acknowledgement, surrender and complete acceptance of what is, identifying mental roadblocks, creating goals, creating self-talk and mental skills that will provide motivation and consolidate the necessary behaviour to achieve the desired outcome. I’ll be very clear …. if you’reContinue reading “Change management is simply the art of reinforcing desired behaviour until the behaviour is permanent….”

I’ve been advised that i need to be selfish with my time and focus on myself and those people are right, except that ….

R U OK exists because an ordinary 16 year old man Jamie, asked an ordinary man about to jump off a bridge, an ordinary question … “Are you OK?” An extraordinary campaign was launched that saves people’s lives. Ironically, the people who advised me to be selfish are people I’ve helped. I guarantee if IContinue reading “I’ve been advised that i need to be selfish with my time and focus on myself and those people are right, except that ….”

Typical Kaukau, always learning the hard way to appreciate who I am and what I can do … better late than never ðŸ˜’ðŸĪŠðŸ˜ðŸĪ—

What do you see?

I see a mother who loves her children ðŸĨ°

Currently I’m in “Isolation” but I’m not isolated …

People can find a million reasons to separate themselves from other people …. bridge the gap because we need to stay connected, even in isolation ðŸĪ”

COVID19 has enabled me to connect to people on an unprecedented scale … some people lost everything and some people gained something. 

I gained new friends and the capacity to communicate with people of all ages,  nationalities, creeds and religions …. 7.8 billion stories to tell, minus 2.