Time to appreciate what we no longer have is what we want when people are gone, we’re away from home, an event is over or we’re facing our own mortality.

I used to waste a lot of time thinking about useless nonsense, feeling persecuted, resenting and loathing the very things I wish I could have back. Appreciate everything you do with love, even your mistakes and the mistakes of others, living each moment as if it’s your last because in time, it will be.

Hard work, hardly working or work that is hard …. amazing how a few extra letters can change the context of words.

I’ve spent so many years running on a Å£readmill that went nowhere … working hard with work that I made hard, which inevitably was hardly working. Confused? I was once too 😅

Typical Kaukau, always learning the hard way to appreciate who I am and what I can do … better late than never ðŸ˜’🤪😝🤗

What do you see?

I see a mother who loves her children 🥰

My capacity to visualise and focus on what I want, coupled with a willingness to work hard is how I’ve achieve everything I’ve ever done ….

Both good and bad! Recognising how I once allowed the bad to happen enables me to see the toxic mental constructs that caused my demise. It’s why I can see the insanity in what people do. On the flip side, I use this knowledge to know that if I can practise my way to failure,Continue reading “My capacity to visualise and focus on what I want, coupled with a willingness to work hard is how I’ve achieve everything I’ve ever done ….”

Currently I’m in “Isolation” but I’m not isolated …

People can find a million reasons to separate themselves from other people …. bridge the gap because we need to stay connected, even in isolation 🤔

Mali, my boys brother from another mother …. “Just nod and smile” is what I taught Mali if he didn’t agree or understand something.

Today that’s how he identified who he was when I asked if I was talking to the young immature Mali that I used to know. I was moved to tears because I knew that of all the things that I have done wrong, at least I’d done one thing right. 

Personal Branding is just as important as Professional Branding …. so put your best foot forward ðŸ¦¿

Every superhero knows that if you don’t KNOW than you can’t GO …..

Everyday I am committed to pushing myself beyond my established limits of yesterday …. despite barely sleeping and eating, I accomplish alot and I use instant coffee (which does very little) to keep me alert.  On Saturday, I had 2 large flat whites which is 4 espresso shots and I hit a brick wall onContinue reading “Every superhero knows that if you don’t KNOW than you can’t GO …..”

When my sons’ father had a heart attack 5 years ago my 13 year old fell apart and I told him to pull his shit together and fall apart afterwards.

Two and a half weeks after my brother’s accident, this is me invoking my right to fall apart.