Category: not good enough
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Be willing to validate what you know: Take 2 – Establish goalposts SMARTly
Kaukau Karauria
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Avoidance coping means running away from the issues of contention, making resolution impossible and maintaining the status quo!
Kaukau Karauria
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A silent mind equals joy!
Kaukau Karauria
#awesome, #Calm, #conditionallove, #harm, #Health, #imagination, #joy, #judgement, #presence, #self development, #selftalk, #time, #Wellness, #wisdom, 2021, abuse, Acceptance, amazing, anger, Australia, awesome, be kind to yourself, be smart, beauty, because I can, being right, Eckhart Tolle, emotional, fear, freedom, genius, get out of your way, goals, health, health and wellness coach, intuition, invest in yourself, LinkedIn, Melbourne, mental health, mental skills training, mind, Mindfulness, miracles, normal, not good enough, pain, passion, peace, perfection, practise, precious, presence, self-abuse, smart goals, spirit, stop talking, story, surrender, talk, thoughts, truth, unacceptable, unacceptance, unburdened, unhealthy mindset, victim, vilification, vision, visualisation, visualization, wasted time, wealth, wonderment, words, worth#abnormal, #Acceptance, #australia, #Awareness, #awesome, #bekindtoyourself, #besmart, #Breath, #breathe, #Calm, #caring, #Change, #changemanagement, #changeyourlife, #cherish, #communicate, #conditionallove, #Confidence, #conflict, #creativity, #eckharttolle, #emotions, #Experiential, #FinancialRecovery, #freedom, #getoutofyourownway, #goalsetting, #Health, #healthandwellness, #healthy, #healthylifestyle, #imagination, #impossible, #inspiration, #instagram, #intelligence, #joy, #judgement, #lackofacceptance, #lawofattraction, #Leadership, #life, #linkedin, #longtermchange, #Love, #melbourne, #mentalhealth, #mentalskillstraining, #Mindfulness, #mistakes, #nomind, #normal, #nothing, #numberone, #openyoureyes, #pain, #peace, #permission, #photograph, #photographer, #photography, #possible, #practise, #practisemakespermanent, #presence, #reality, #selfabuse, #selfinterest, #selfish, #selftalk, #sensible, #sharing, #spirituality, #success, #surrender, #talk, #time, #treat, #trust, #truth, #unconditionalacceptance, #unconditionallove, #VanGogh, #victim, #visualisation, #well, #wellbeing, #Wellness, #wellnesscoach, #wind, #wisdom, #words, #world, #worldwide, #write, #writer, #you’reworthit, #yourenotalone, abuse, intuition -
We all have choose our reality by energising what we want 🧐
Kaukau Karauria
#awesome, #Calm, #communicate, #conditionallove, #faith, #family, #friendship, #harm, #Health, #imagination, #joy, #judgement, #New Zealand, #presence, #self development, #selftalk, #time, #Wellness, #wisdom, 2021, abandonment, abnormal, abuse, Acceptance, adult, adversity, amazing, anger, Australia, awesome, be kind to yourself, be smart, beauty, because I can, being right, blame, body, Change, conflict, delusion, Development, disappointment, drama, Eckhart Tolle, emancipation, emotional, fact, fear, freedom, genius, get out of your way, goals, growth, guilty, health, health and wellness coach, I don’t know, insanity, intuition, invest in yourself, isolation, Leadership, LinkedIn, Love, mature, maturity, measure, Melbourne, mental health, mental skills training, mind, Mindfulness, miracles, mistakes, new Zealand, normal, not good enough, obsession, pain, passion, peace, perfection, permission, practise, presence, priceless, quality, reality, regret, relationships, self-abuse, smart goals, smile, soul, spirit, stop talking, story, stubborn, surrender, systems of operation, talk, thoughts, together, truth, unacceptable, unacceptance, unburdened, unhealthy mindset, universe, victim, vilification, vision, visualisation, visualization, wasted time, wealth, wonderment, words, work, worth, wrong#Acceptance, #australia, #Awareness, #awesome, #bekindtoyourself, #Breath, #breathe, #Calm, #caring, #Change, #changemanagement, #changeyourlife, #Confidence, #creativity, #decide, #emotional, #emotions, #freedom, #friend, #friendship, #genius, #getoutofyourownway, #gift, #goals, #goalsetting, #goodpeople, #Health, #honesty, #judgement, #lackofacceptance, #Leadership, #life, #linkedin, #loss, #Love, #melbourne, #mentalhealth, #mentalskillstraining, #Mindfulness, #NewZealand, #nomind, #normal, #nothing, #openyoureyes, #peace, #permission, #photograph, #photographer, #photography, #practise, #practisemakespermanent, #presence, #reality, #recovery, #selfinterest, #selftalk, #sharing, #spirituality, #success, #surrender, #talk, #time, #treat, #trust, #truth, #unconditionalacceptance, #unconditionallove, #unconditionalsurrender, #vision, #visualisation, #Wellness, #wisdom, #write, #writer, #yourenotalone -
Childhood set me up beautifully to fail 🤨
Kaukau Karauria
#awesome, #bullying, #Calm, #communicate, #conditionallove, #faith, #family, #friendship, #harm, #Health, #imagination, #joy, #self development, #selftalk, #time, #walk, #Wellness, #wisdom, 2021, abandonment, Acceptance, adult, adversity, amazing, Australia, awesome, be kind to yourself, be smart, beauty, because I can, being right, blame, body, conflict, connected, conversation, cry, dark, Development, disappointment, Eckhart Tolle, emancipation, emotional, employment, exercise, fact, fear, feuding siblings, freedom, friends, friendship, genius, get out of your way, goals, growing up, growth, guilty, health, health and wellness coach, I don’t know, insanity, intuition, invest in yourself, isolation, Leadership, LinkedIn, logic, Love, measure, Melbourne, mental health, mental skills training, mind, Mindfulness, miracles, mistakes, normal, not good enough, number one, peace, permission, practise, presence, self-abuse, smart goals, surrender, systems of operation, talk, thoughts, unacceptable, unacceptance, unburdened, unhealthy mindset, victim, vilification, vision, visualisation, visualization, wasted time, wealth, wonderment, words, worth, wrong#Acceptance, #alone, #Awareness, #awesome, #bekindtoyourself, #besmart, #Breath, #breathe, #bullying, #Calm, #Change, #changemanagement, #changeyourlife, #childhood, #Confidence, #darkness, #decide, #eckharttolle, #fear, #forkintheroad, #friend, #friendship, #getoutofyourownway, #gift, #goalsetting, #goodpeople, #hardlyworking, #hardwork, #Health, #heartbreak, #HOME, #idontknow, #illness, #illusion, #insignificance, #inspiration, #joy, #judgement, #lackofacceptance, #lawofattraction, #lie, #life, #loss, #mentalskillstraining, #NewZealand, #nightmare, #nothing, #numberone, #olddog, #openyoureyes, #parentalfear, #photograph, #photographer, #photography, #possible, #practisemakespermanent, #presence, #recovery, #resentment, #selfabuse, #selfinterest, #selfish, #selftalk, #sensible, #smartsgoals, #spirituality, #success, #time, #treat, #trust, #unconditionalacceptance, #unconditionallove, #unconditionalsurrender, #walk, #Wellness, #wisdom, #workthatishard, #write, #writer, #you’reworthit, #yourenotalone, abuse -
Eckhart Tolle pointed the way to a better way of living 🤪
Kaukau Karauria
#awesome, #Calm, #communicate, #conditionallove, #faith, #family, #harm, #Health, #imagination, #joy, #judgement, #presence, #self development, #selftalk, #time, #Wellness, #wisdom, 2021, Acceptance, amazing, anger, Australia, awesome, be kind to yourself, be smart, because I can, being right, Change, conflict, connected, conversation, customer service, dark, Development, dirt, disappointment, Eckhart Tolle, emancipation, emotional, fact, fear, genius, get out of your way, goals, growth, health, health and wellness coach, I don’t know, intuition, invest in yourself, Leadership, LinkedIn, Love, Melbourne, mental health, mental skills training, mind, Mindfulness, miracles, mistakes, new Zealand, normal, not good enough, obsession, pain, passion, peace, perfection, permission, practise, precious, presence, self-abuse, spirit, thoughts, truth, unacceptable, unacceptance, unhealthy mindset, victim, vision, visualisation, visualization, wonderment, worth#Acceptance, #Awareness, #awesome, #bekindtoyourself, #besmart, #Breath, #breathe, #Calm, #Change, #changemanagement, #changeyourlife, #Confidence, #decide, #eckharttolle, #forkintheroad, #friend, #friendship, #getoutofyourownway, #gift, #goalsetting, #goodpeople, #hardwork, #Health, #HOME, #idontknow, #inspiration, #joy, #judgement, #lackofacceptance, #life, #loss, #mentalskillstraining, #NewZealand, #nothing, #numberone, #openyoureyes, #photograph, #photographer, #photography, #practisemakespermanent, #presence, #selfinterest, #selfish, #selftalk, #simple, #simplethings, #smartsgoals, #spirituality, #success, #time, #treat, #trust, #unconditionalacceptance, #unconditionallove, #unconditionalsurrender, #Wellness, #wisdom, #write, #writer, #you’reworthit, #yourenotalone -
How I learnt to Get out of my own way…. still practicing 😂🤣
Kaukau Karauria
#awesome, #Calm, #communicate, #conditionallove, #faith, #family, #friendship, #harm, #Health, #imagination, #joy, #judgement, #New Zealand, #Politics, #self development, #selftalk, #time, #walk, #Wellness, #wisdom, 2021, abandonment, abnormal, abuse, Acceptance, adult, adversity, amazing, America, anger, Australia, awesome, be kind to yourself, be smart, beauty, because I can, being right, blame, body, brother, Change, conciliation, conflict, connected, conversation, drama, Eckhart Tolle, emancipation, emotional, fear, freedom, friends, friendship, genius, get out of your way, goals, growing up, growth, guilty, health, health and wellness coach, insanity, intuition, invest in yourself, isolation, Leadership, LinkedIn, Love, mana, Melbourne, mental health, mental skills training, mind, Mindfulness, miracles, normal, not good enough, pain, peace, perfection, permission, persecution, practise, presence, schizophrenia, self-abuse, surrender, talk, thoughts, together, unacceptable, unhealthy mindset, victim, vilification, vision, visualisation, visualization, wasted time, wonderment, words, worth#alone, #awesome, #bekindtoyourself, #besmart, #breathe, #Calm, #changemanagement, #changeyourlife, #citylights, #decide, #dementia, #eckharttolle, #eliteathletes, #familyfeud, #forkintheroad, #friend, #friendship, #getoutofyourownway, #gift, #goalsetting, #goodpeople, #hardwork, #Health, #HOME, #illusion, #inspiration, #joy, #judgement, #lackofacceptance, #lie, #life, #loss, #mentalskillstraining, #NewZealand, #nothing, #openyoureyes, #parentalfear, #parenting, #photograph, #photographer, #photography, #practisemakespermanent, #presence, #recovery, #resentment, #selfinterest, #selftalk, #spirituality, #success, #time, #treat, #trust, #unconditionalacceptance, #unconditionallove, #unconditionalsurrender, #Wellness, #wisdom, #workthatishard, #write, #writer, #you’reworthit, #yourenotalone, schizophrenia -
The story behind “ Getting out of your own way!”
Kaukau Karauria
#awesome, #Calm, #harm, #Health, #imagination, #joy, #self development, #selftalk, #time, #Wellness, #wisdom, 2021, abnormal, abuse, Acceptance, adversity, amazing, Australia, be kind to yourself, be smart, beauty, because I can, being right, Change, emancipation, emotional, fact, fear, freedom, friends, friendship, genius, get out of your way, goals, growth, health, health and wellness coach, I don’t know, insanity, intuition, invest in yourself, isolation, Leadership, LinkedIn, logic, lonely, Love, mana, mature, measure, Melbourne, mental health, mental skills training, mind, Mindfulness, miracles, mistakes, not good enough, number one, organise, peace, perfection, practise, presence, pulling up stones, rehabilitation, smart goals, stepping stones, story, surrender, systems of operation, talk, thoughts, truth, victim, vilification, vision, visualisation, visualization, wasted time, wealth, wonderment, words, work, worth#alone, #awesome, #bekindtoyourself, #besmart, #breathe, #Calm, #changemanagement, #changeyourlife, #darkness, #decide, #eckharttolle, #fly, #flying, #forkintheroad, #friend, #friendship, #getoutofyourownway, #gift, #goalsetting, #goodpeople, #Health, #HOME, #illusion, #inspiration, #joy, #judgement, #lackofacceptance, #lie, #life, #loss, #mentalskillstraining, #NewZealand, #nothing, #numberone, #openyoureyes, #photograph, #photographer, #photography, #possible, #practisemakespermanent, #presence, #recovery, #selfinterest, #selfish, #selftalk, #smartsgoals, #spirituality, #success, #superhero, #time, #treat, #trust, #unconditionalacceptance, #unconditionallove, #unconditionalsurrender, #walk, #Wellness, #wisdom, #write, #writer, #you’reworthit, #yourenotalone -
Get out of your way by questioning stupid decisions and thoughts
Kaukau Karauria
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In Melbourne where I am most safe and feel most comfortable, it’s easy to be at peace.
Being at peace, accepting and non-judgemental is really difficult so now I need to learn to be in a state of surrender …. accepting untenable things as if I chose them and allowing all the negative emotions to dissipate. Thus enabling wisdom to prevail and to remind me the problem exists only in my mind, […]
Kaukau Karauria
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