Change management is simply the art of reinforcing desired behaviour until the behaviour is permanent….

Any vision, dream belief is achievable once a strategy is in place. Part of which requires acknowledgement, surrender and complete acceptance of what is, identifying mental roadblocks, creating goals, creating self-talk and mental skills that will provide motivation and consolidate the necessary behaviour to achieve the desired outcome. I’ll be very clear …. if you’reContinue reading “Change management is simply the art of reinforcing desired behaviour until the behaviour is permanent….”

COVID19 has enabled me to connect to people on an unprecedented scale … some people lost everything and some people gained something. 

I gained new friends and the capacity to communicate with people of all ages,  nationalities, creeds and religions …. 7.8 billion stories to tell, minus 2.

When my sons’ father had a heart attack 5 years ago my 13 year old fell apart and I told him to pull his shit together and fall apart afterwards.

Two and a half weeks after my brother’s accident, this is me invoking my right to fall apart.

“What have you done today to make you feel proud” M People

I was raised by an angry and bitter man who conditioned me to know that my mother had abandoned me. Why? He was conditioned by the loss of his mother as a baby and a father whom left him with his mother’s family so that they would still have her. We all make decisions basedContinue reading ““What have you done today to make you feel proud” M People”

“What have you done today to make you feel proud” M People

I was raised by an angry and bitter man who conditioned me to know that my mother had abandoned me. Why? He was conditioned by the loss of his mother as a baby and a father whom left him with his mother’s family so that they would still have her. We all make decisions basedContinue reading ““What have you done today to make you feel proud” M People”

“What have you done today to make you feel proud” M People

I was raised by an angry and bitter man who conditioned me to know that my mother had abandoned me. Why? He was conditioned by the loss of his mother as a baby and a father whom left him with his mother’s family so that they would still have her. We all make decisions basedContinue reading ““What have you done today to make you feel proud” M People”

Once upon a time there was a clever little girl who could never admit she was wrong ….

That little girl grew up to have children who perpetuate that truth. Now she lives with the knowledge that being right can often be so wrong! What does your truth say and if it causes pain was being right worth it?

Dawn is an impatient in the same hospital as her son, Boris whom she can’t visit because she needs an escort to leave the ward and covid19 restrictions only allow one visitor at a time.

Yes i could take her but I’ve promised another one of her sons that I won’t tell Boris she’s there. She’s heartbroken at being so close but so far away. I’m crushed because I can’t appease her worry. It’s devastating watching people suffer which is my impetus for the posts that I create. They areContinue reading “Dawn is an impatient in the same hospital as her son, Boris whom she can’t visit because she needs an escort to leave the ward and covid19 restrictions only allow one visitor at a time.”

The only thing that separates success from failure is “I am …. I am doing it!

Visualise the best possible version of who you are and then practise your way to it. Each time you falter remember, a cup is filled one drop at a time, a step requires many physiological and psychological processes to occur in a systematic manner. Creating a great system requires time and effort but like you,Continue reading “The only thing that separates success from failure is “I am …. I am doing it!”

Fear blinds us to who we are and it fools us into thinking that it’s protecting us.

Wars have been fought on that notion. Greed is normalised and it’s not just about big corporations, look at how people hoarded toilet paper, cleaning materials and food. Turning a blind eye to known malpractices that occur and that we do, because we’re afraid. Open your eyes and see that who we are does notContinue reading “Fear blinds us to who we are and it fools us into thinking that it’s protecting us.”